Cheating ex boyfriend
Many women at one time or another have to undergo this menace of cheating ex-boyfriends. He cheats on you, you cry yourself out and yet you can’t get over him. Sometimes you break up with him but you still accommodate him when he makes advances. Your cheating ex- boyfriend may lower your self-esteem to the lowest level. Sometimes you may even blame yourself for his actions and almost justify them. No matter how you feel cheating is bad and you should not tolerate it.
How do you get over your cheating ex boyfriend? First of all, you need to accept that your relationship is over and that you broke up because you could not work things out. A man who cheats on you does not deserve you. You are beautiful in your own special way and you need to learn to love and appreciate yourself.
Secondly, mourn the loss of your relationship. Look at it as if it died and take time to mourn. Cry if crying makes you feel better. Talk to friends and if need be seek professional help. Remember you invested all your time, energy and emotions to your relationship. By mourning the loss of your cheating ex-boyfriend you allow yourself to move on. Thirdly, do not jump into another relationship just to prove your cheating ex-boyfriend wrong. If you jump into another relationship without getting over your cheating ex boyfriend you are digging your own grave. Chances are that you are going to settle for the wrong person and end up hurting yourself even more. It is also possible that you have lost your self-worth and that you are simply trying to prove to yourself that you can get another man.
So, take your time before getting into another relationship. By leaving you your cheating ex-boyfriend could have done you more good than harm. Take this transition as a blessing in disguise. Look at your situation more positively and thank God for giving you another chance to explore the world of men. Who knows, if you had stuck with this guy, he would have probably killed you with AIDS. Forget your cheating ex-boyfriend! You are on your way to meeting Mr. Right.
Set your priorities right. Now is the time to spend more time with your family and close friends. Go out with your girlfriends and have fun. Talk about your cheating ex-boyfriend and laugh it out. Visit the family that you neglected while dating this man. Do not allow yourself to feel lonely. You might think of calling him and reconciling with a cheater. Shop and change your wardrobe. You need to get yourself some nice clothes. Look good and enjoy being responsible for yourself. Enjoy being single temporarily and get to know your body better. Visit your hair dresser and have your hair done. It is time to feel good and not cry and kill yourself in self-pity.
Is your cheating ex boyfriend making advances? If yes, then make sure that you clearly let him know that you have moved on with your life and that you do not intend to go back to him. Whatever happens, please do not entertain him. Remember if he cheated on you once, he can do it again.